Generally, emotional attraction is feeling on others like to the opposite gender or with family or friends those are evokes interest, fondness, and the desire to always interact with or without borders. So, we need build emotional attraction in ourself for long term relationship with other people.
If the emotional attraction occurs between the opposite sex (men & women), then it will generate interest for relationships such as marriage and the desire to live together until the end of the age. If this occurs between a mother and child, then the mother would wholeheartedly devote attention and affection to the child, and the child will always feel comfortable and feel safe when with the mother. If this occurs among same-sex friends (men with men, women with women), then it will grow up feeling loved each other and willing to sacrifice for the good of his friend, and always try to establish communication intense though separated by distance and time.
Emotional attraction is very different from physical attraction. Even if someone is interested can also involve emotional physical attraction, but there are many differences in the way that makes emotional attraction why far more important than physical attraction.
Between men and women, the line between emotional attraction and physical attraction is quite different.
A man who attracted to a sexy and beautiful woman, he's not necessarily want to live together and are always interacting with her. That is in the mind for just a mere sexual attraction. Physical attraction to a woman may instantly appear without having to start with the emotional attraction.
However, in women, if she saw a handsome and athletic man, it does not necessarily appear that lead to the interest of sexual attraction. It takes an emotional appeal first, then will grow sexual attraction (physical attraction).
Because of these differences that we need to understand some of the conditions that require the tolerance when we see a man or woman that we like to be with a certain attitude. Suppose that when a wife goes to her husband, it is possible at any given time her husband take look at other women who look beautiful. Or suppose there is a man who suddenly show off his athletic body in front of the women who suddenly passed, which happened then are the women wasn't in awe, but it actually felt horrified or ilfeel.
Between a mother and child, the emotional attraction to each other is a gift that arise because of the hormone oxytocin that released naturally when a mother breastfeeding her baby. As we all know, love Oxytocin is a hormone that helps the emotional bond between mother and child.
This is confirmed by Pilyoung Kim, developmental psychologist from Yale University, who said: "Mothers who decide to breastfeed reflect his tendency to be empathetic to their babies. Determination to give breast milk since a baby in the womb also increases the bond between mother and child, "he said.
It is therefore highly recommended for a new mother to breastfeed her baby so that the emotional bond between mother and baby can always be maintained. Even the strength of this bond can continue to grow until the infant to adult. This is what should be considered by the mothers to the emotional attraction between her and the baby can continue to grow and survive, and of course not forgetting the other rights and responsibility.